I remember when I used to be young and innocent, i always have this motto that "Life is Unpredictable" .. Welll just how true this can be.

Just barely 2 mths ago, we were informed that my FIL (father-in-law) cancer cells might had returned cos of some unexplained black spots on his backbone. Doctor advise therapy to lessen the pain but they cant do anything abt the black spots as its not developing further. We were told to adopt a wait and see attitude and as long as my FIL take good care of himself, things should be fine. So time passes and now we are hit with NEW development with regards to his health. Something totally out of context...FIL had complained abt frequent gastric pain that we thot is due to the irregular meals that he had as a taxi driver. Turn out it could be mini heart attacks! apparently he got a huge bloackage in his artery and is now schduled for a heart bypass. Can you imagine the whole senario? this would be his third operation in the past 2 years! I guess its true that as one's get older, his/her body really break down thru the wear and tear over the years. I wonder could it be his lifestyle as a past sailor and now as a taxi driver for 10 over years. Is this the cause of all his illnesses? Even strange is that he is someone who do not smoke and drink so what went wrong? Somehow i feel that life is really out to make fun of some people, just when both my parent in law feels that its finally time to settle down and enjoy life, they have to be inform times and times again on issues like this. I know how much my MIL (mother-in-law) envy my mom, my mom gets to go shopping, makan with her sister, daddy will drives her here and fetch her there and make her laugh. But for my MIL, she just worry and worry and worry for my FIL. As its her duty as a wife to be there to take care of him, she face lots of pressure whenever he's sick... the numerous sighs she made whenever he sigh once...Terrible isnt it?

May the operation be done soon and pls let him live healthy and happy...

i saw the worry look in your eyes...don't fret baby cos i will always be here for ya..